When a boyfriend does not show up

I had forecast for someone the appearance of a significant boyfriend, and I even gave certain descriptors for him.

Sure enough, a man with these qualities appeared in her life rather quickly, but then he broke off the relationship.

The woman wrote to me with an excellent question: "Am I doing something wrong, am I missing the signs? I’d really like your perspective on this."

My reply was: "That is a pretty deep question. I think the answer is something like the following.

We have to respect the weather patterns and understand that a boyfriend for you, a teacher for you, a pet for you, and so on are manifestations of the patterns, and not really proof or dis-proof of the patterns. 

Remember that we are meteorologists really with Jyotish, and not miners. That would be going in the wrong direction.

So, bottom line: keep going with your beliefs and co-create him, allow him, give space to him. There is still time."

Indeed, there is still plenty of time even within the original forecast for the meeting to occur.  

Sometimes, I think that we try to force astrological information into manifestation, like the miner, instead of allowing the ripening of, the blossoming of, the field of manifestation.